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Kels's avatar

This post absolutely made my day. I think all cisgendered men should have their makeup done at least once to better appreciate what many women do every single day either as a form of self expression, or due to the pressure society places on them to "put on their face" before daring to leave the house. Never again will they question "what's taking you so long?" On a related note, "Celebrities without makeup" remains a revolting staple of gossip rag culture as it implies women are incomplete without face paint. As a gender nonbinary feminine-leaning person who was born male, I watched femininity from the outside looking in for most of my life, and now can finally enjoy such expression for myself. It would be such a treat to have a skilled, in-house pro like your daughter in the house! Cheering on your family bonding. And on a final note, when attending the Barbie movie with my daughter, I chose rainbow colored plisse satin pants with a complementary top, another dude (clearly there to see a different movie), asked why I was dressed like a fishing lure. His tone changed when I mentioned I was taking my daughter to see Barbie, but I shouldn't need a child shield to simply be dressed divinely.

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Douglas Trapasso's avatar

Here's a theatre rec for you, Lila and Claudia should it ever come to your town: I definitely recommend "Head Over Heals", which ran off-Broadway for about a year pre-Covid. You may remember it as "the Go-Go's musical" but it doesn't have anything to do with that band. Instead it's a totally gonzo medieval fairy tale that has a lot of Rocky Horror influence. I'm guessing the three of you will love it!

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